I think I'm in love...

spinndrift · 08-12-2004, 12:13

...but I'm married and it's not my wife I'm talking about.

Get on really well with a woman in work who I find really attractive, just had an email off her saying she loves me

Anyone want to swap places.

Why is this haoppening to me, a fat ugly ******* - can't she pick someone else in the office to shock.

Gwilo · 08-12-2004, 12:15

I can proably pass as your doppelganger (hair being an exception).
I'm single as well, no problem for me

Seriously though, some women use the term "love" as men use the term "best mate". I don't think (i know i know, i rarely do!) there's any sinister manouverings going on, unless SWMBO has hired one of those "honey-trap" agencies..........

MonkeyHanger · 08-12-2004, 12:16

Looks aren't everything Andy.

Personality, character etc etc..

Having said that, if you're happily married (contradiction in terms?

) and don't want the grief that a divorce brings, then put a lid on this immediately.

SkodiRS · 08-12-2004, 12:18

"There may be trouble ahead....."

Wow...what a bombshell that must of been Andy.

I guess you have to turn things around a little.....how would you feel if SWMBO ran off with another bloke?

Speaking from experience....it wouldn't be good.

A few deep breaths and some deep thinking required...me thinks.

spinndrift · 08-12-2004, 12:18

Quote:

Originally Posted by Javaman

I can proably pass as your doppelganger (hair being an exception).
I'm single as well, no problem for me

Seriously though, some women use the term "love" as men use the term "best mate". I don't think (i know i know, i rarely do!) there's any sinister manouverings going on, unless SWMBO has hired one of those "honey-trap" agencies..........

She has told me before that she loves me on a works party but I put that down to the drink.

Due to the contents of the email I don't think she means best mate.

Gonna have to slap her I think.

Hair will be gone by the New Year

Liam · 08-12-2004, 12:21

Andy, be careful...

spinndrift · 08-12-2004, 12:23

Quote:

Originally Posted by Liam

Andy, be careful...

Jesus guys - I'm not going to do anything, I'm happily (well as happy as it gets) married.

I'm just a bit shocked.

I need to tell this woman the score but want to do it nicely.

**robmawer** · 08-12-2004, 12:29

Quote:

Originally Posted by spinndrift

I need to tell this woman the score but want to do it nicely.

You just need to sit down and politely explain the situation...

...then ask her if she's interested in a threesome?

Rob.

Tavia4x4 · 08-12-2004, 12:30

I get "we love you" all the time, but then I fix things and it makes the girls happy... sandra knows they are only after my toolkit.

(rob, plenty for you to be going on with there...

)

pbirkett · 08-12-2004, 12:33

I dunno, some people get all the luck, and then complain about it

Nobody loves me

devonutopia · 08-12-2004, 12:36

All I can say is you lucky son of a ....!

But yeah, the lady needs, in no dithering, uncertain terms, to be told to back off. Just out of interest is she in any kind of relationship?

spinndrift · 08-12-2004, 12:36

Perhaps I should put her on ebay.

Gwilo · 08-12-2004, 12:37

Quote:

Originally Posted by spinndrift

Jesus guys - I'm not going to do anything, I'm happily (well as happy as it gets) married.

I'm just a bit shocked.

I need to tell this woman the score but want to do it nicely.

"I know I'm the hunkiest man on-site and a veritable bag of wild testosterone, but see, the thing is, I've got a long standing "service contract" with another party, and it includes various "golden handcuff" and penalty clauses.........."
Can't you just tell I'm useful in the "shoulder-to-cry-on" department......

flatfourburble · 08-12-2004, 12:41

I stand by the term "sh*tting on your own doorstep" not that I would ever cheat on my other half because I wouldn't, but "if" I was that way inclinded to I wouldn't with someone I worked with, too many chances of it got tits up!

Just tell her that you not interested and your married. Looks are nout matey just look at me!!

***Neo_VR*** · 08-12-2004, 12:41

Is she fit?

***Neo_VR*** · 08-12-2004, 12:42

Quote:

Originally Posted by Javaman

"I know I'm the hunkiest man on-site and a veritable bag of wild testosterone, but see, the thing is, I've got a long standing "service contract" with another party, and it includes various "golden handcuff" and penalty clauses.........."
Can't you just tell I'm useful in the "shoulder-to-cry-on" department......

spinndrift · 08-12-2004, 12:44

Quote:

Originally Posted by Neo_VR

Is she fit?

Not dead fit.

Nice body but a bit of a dodgy grid.

Cracking sense of humour.

She's single and lives in Bolton.

If I was single there would be no question of me proceeding.

C.J. · 08-12-2004, 12:44

Got her e mail address fellah, 'cus nobody luvs me.

devonutopia · 08-12-2004, 12:45

I doubt she's a patch on his Julie.

(trying to further dissuade Andy from further musings on this topic

)

Gwilo · 08-12-2004, 12:46

Quote:

Originally Posted by C.J.

Got her e mail address fellah, 'cus nobody luvs me.

I love you C.J....................
(not like that Rob........)

spinndrift · 08-12-2004, 12:47

Quote:

Originally Posted by C.J.

Got her e mail address fellah, 'cus nobody luvs me.

I do.

But in a girly best mate way

Not the kind of email I expected this morning - was expecting to be hauled into the office for a bollocking this morning.

flatfourburble · 08-12-2004, 12:48

Quote:

Originally Posted by spinndrift

Not the kind of email I expected this morning - was expecting to be hauled into the office for a rodgering this morning.

opps

Stimps · 08-12-2004, 12:49

You could always go for the

escape clause...

Or forward her email around and make her famous....

Erm... I'll go to lunch now I think... =)

**TaviaRS** · 08-12-2004, 12:50

Tell Julie, do it in a jokey way. No, I am serious! I had something similar, ended up being stalked - luckily I had told my then wife about it or I could have been in real trouble.

Tavia4x4 · 08-12-2004, 12:50

Even if single... I'd advise against workplace romances... have had two and they both felt awkward afterwards..

I've also seen it from the outside and it can make others uncomfortable...

(come on Rob, I'm feeding you lines here

)

08-12-2004, 12:13	#1
spinndrift Briskodian Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Woking/Bolton Le Sands Posts: 6,643 Members Car: Roomster Thanks: 1 Thanked 7 Times in 7 Posts	I think I'm in love... ...but I'm married and it's not my wife I'm talking about. Get on really well with a woman in work who I find really attractive, just had an email off her saying she loves me Anyone want to swap places. Why is this haoppening to me, a fat ugly ***** - can't she pick someone else in the office to shock. __________________ Rev. Andy The Rallying Reverend www.miniroadrunnerrallying.co.uk Engine data aquisition is fun**

08-12-2004, 12:15	#2
Gwilo Undercover Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Manchester Posts: 3,692 Members Car: Rustwagon Thanks: 17 Thanked 7 Times in 7 Posts	I can proably pass as your doppelganger (hair being an exception). I'm single as well, no problem for me Seriously though, some women use the term "love" as men use the term "best mate". I don't think (i know i know, i rarely do!) there's any sinister manouverings going on, unless SWMBO has hired one of those "honey-trap" agencies.......... __________________

08-12-2004, 12:18	#4
SkodiRS BRISKODA Staff Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: darkest Hampshire Posts: 8,650 Members Car: Thanks: 0 Thanked 17 Times in 13 Posts	"There may be trouble ahead....." Wow...what a bombshell that must of been Andy. I guess you have to turn things around a little.....how would you feel if SWMBO ran off with another bloke? Speaking from experience....it wouldn't be good. A few deep breaths and some deep thinking required...me thinks. __________________ Adrian.

08-12-2004, 12:21	#6
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08-12-2004, 12:30	#9
Tavia4x4 Briskodian Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: J5 M61 Posts: 5,294 Members Car: Octavia 4x4 - aka "The Ambulance" Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	I get "we love you" all the time, but then I fix things and it makes the girls happy... sandra knows they are only after my toolkit. (rob, plenty for you to be going on with there... ) __________________ Ian __________________ Nice to be important, but more important to be nice...

08-12-2004, 12:16	#3
MonkeyHanger Briskodian Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Anywhere but here Posts: 8,779 Members Car: Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Looks aren't everything Andy. Personality, character etc etc.. Having said that, if you're happily married (contradiction in terms? ) and don't want the grief that a divorce brings, then put a lid on this immediately.

08-12-2004, 12:33	#10
pbirkett Briskodian Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 2,873 Members Car: Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	I dunno, some people get all the luck, and then complain about it Nobody loves me

08-12-2004, 12:36	#11
devonutopia Mongreller Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Exeter / Devon Posts: 30,103 Members Car: Skoda Fabia Mongrel Images: 5 Thanks: 75 Thanked 352 Times in 295 Posts	All I can say is you lucky son of a ....! But yeah, the lady needs, in no dithering, uncertain terms, to be told to back off. Just out of interest is she in any kind of relationship? __________________ Jason - Only a Skoda. Custom Fabia Bonnet Lifter Kits - £45! Click Me. Cheesy bonnet lifter video to "raise me up" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hMnGECEi5Oc See the mongrel's 260bhp Dyno Video!

08-12-2004, 12:36	#12
spinndrift Briskodian Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Woking/Bolton Le Sands Posts: 6,643 Members Car: Roomster Thanks: 1 Thanked 7 Times in 7 Posts	Perhaps I should put her on ebay. __________________ Rev. Andy The Rallying Reverend www.miniroadrunnerrallying.co.uk Engine data aquisition is fun

08-12-2004, 12:41	#14
flatfourburble "Bones" Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Heathrow/Crewe Posts: 5,449 Members Car: Fabia vRS Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	I stand by the term "sh*tting on your own doorstep" not that I would ever cheat on my other half because I wouldn't, but "if" I was that way inclinded to I wouldn't with someone I worked with, too many chances of it got tits up! Just tell her that you not interested and your married. Looks are nout matey just look at me!! __________________ Oh to have the internet back..................oh have I missed it

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08-12-2004, 12:44	#18
C.J. Briskodian Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: --- Posts: 3,288 Members Car: Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Got her e mail address fellah, 'cus nobody luvs me.

08-12-2004, 12:45	#19
devonutopia Mongreller Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Exeter / Devon Posts: 30,103 Members Car: Skoda Fabia Mongrel Images: 5 Thanks: 75 Thanked 352 Times in 295 Posts	I doubt she's a patch on his Julie. (trying to further dissuade Andy from further musings on this topic ) __________________ Jason - Only a Skoda. Custom Fabia Bonnet Lifter Kits - £45! Click Me. Cheesy bonnet lifter video to "raise me up" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hMnGECEi5Oc See the mongrel's 260bhp Dyno Video!

08-12-2004, 12:49	#23
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